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If you’re like me, you thought, “Easy. I’ll just get maybe 3 maternity items and supplement the remainder by wearing my husband’s shirts because they’re big on me anyway.” This is a wonderful idea, in theory. And honestly, it may work for you! Kudos if so. However, it did not for me.
So I tried to think of the basics: I’m pregnant all summer so I’ll need a good pair or two of maternity shorts, I have my husband’s XL t-shirts, I’ll need some dresses for church, bras to fit my growing chest, and some actual maternity shirts.
Let me start off by saying this—if you have someone you can borrow from, absolutely DO IT. I was lucky enough to have two people loan me some of their maternity clothes, and I am so grateful. From my sister-in-law, I got some maternity tees and tanks as well as four dressier shirts. From my sweet friend, I got two pairs of jeans, a pair of leggings, pajamas, a shirt, and two dresses. Go ahead and ask to borrow from family and friends because other mamas are compassionate and know how hard it can be to find good maternity wear—I certainly won’t be forgetting anytime soon.
Aside from what I borrowed, I have also bought:
· Two pairs of maternity biker shorts (my favorite*, and these were okay)
· One pair of cheap athletic shorts
· One pair of maternity jean shorts
· Three nursing bras
· Two maternity dresses
· One casual maternity romper
· These pajamas which can also be used postpartum while nursing
I may have to get a *few* more items as it cools down outside since I’m due in November. My mindset (probably like many) was that I didn’t want to fork up a ton of money for an all-new wardrobe—one that would only get worn for a few months. If you’re pregnant during winter/fall, I’d of course recommend swapping out the shorts for leggings and the rompers/tanks for sweaters.
Don’t forget to take advantage of your local or online thrift stores for maternity wear. Unfortunately, I had no luck the couple times I went in finding my size, but plenty of people do.
It’s not easy finding quality maternity clothes, but there is a way. Make sure you’re reading reviews, look for blog posts (like this one) that have real testimonials and links, and I’ll say it again—borrow! The worst anyone could do is say no.
Lastly, if you’re questioning this investment that is maternity clothes—take it from me, it’s actually worth it. Putting on the pre-pregnancy blouses, jeans, athleisure, etc. only goes so far for most of us. I made the switch to maternity pretty early on, around 18 weeks or so, and I’m glad I did. Wearing my too small pre-pregnancy clothes only made me feel down on myself because they either didn’t fit or just looked way too small suddenly. But we all know that it’s okay! You’re growing another human, so give yourself some grace and happy shopping!
*I seriously cannot recommend these biker shorts enough. I wear them at least 3x a week and they are SO COMFORTABLE! I have gotten my money’s worth and then some out of these. This brand also makes leggings if you are pregnant in winter/just prefer leggings!
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